Mindful Piles

We are beginning to downsize. (Other than in the cat department.  We just got my mother-in-law's two kittens.  A story for another day.) Ken comes from a home that was on the cluttery side.  My house growing up was neat and clean, except for the packed closets.  

Together we are trying to be more mindful about our stuff, using some of the very basic rules: Throw something in the category out when you bring something in. Pick it up, don't pass it by. And so on. 

Now with our focus on mindfulness, I am working hard to become aware when I am creating a pile.  If it catch it when it is two things instead of seven, it's easier to put it away.

We face a long hard road into downsizing, but this can be the start. 

How Can I Make This Easier?

Simplifying my life for 2015 is under way with mindful attention to each activity. Honestly, I still don't like JUST eating when I could be eating and reading, but I take it on faith that it will pay off.

One helpful aspect of this is that I am actually paying enough attention to what I am doing so I can ask:  How Can I Make This Easier?  For example, updating a calendar.  Previously, I updated my iPhone calendar, my family wall calendar, my organizer two-pages-a-day and the calendar that my dad made me out of wood.  I realized that I spent a lot of time to know where I was supposed to be at what time.

So I stopped buying the family wall calendar and focused on the organizer two-pages-a-day and the iPhone for work only.  I also update Dad's calendar, but that's because Dad made it and he's gone to the Eternal Time Zone.  It's worth the two minutes.

Many folks laugh at my giant ever-so-80s organizer.  Yes, you write in it.  But I write everything it in: grocery lists, notes from phone calls, to do lists, where Grandma and Grandpa are buried, etc.  And I get to physically cross things out.  When we changed email systems at work, I actually knew when all MY meetings were. When I need a reference, I have all the notes about a certain day stored for three years. That's covered my rear more times than I care to count.

I tried to find some other person who prefers paper organizers.  When I Googled it, I got an article comparing Filofax to Blackberries and Outlook.  So I may well be in the minority here.

Nonetheless I've simplified a bit, cutting quite a lot of time out of planning my day.  Paying attention pointed out the right thing for me. So mindfulness does make simplifying easier. I'll let you know about the mindful eating.

12 Qualities of an Enlightened Person

This is a wonderful piece on the

12 Qualities of an Enlightened Person



Enjoy

Manage Your Mind

In a Zen way, I'm tempted to say: not time management, not productivity management, not energy management, not purpose management.  Instead manage the state of your mind. 

Marc Lesser 

I agree that, with God's help, we should concentrate on managing ourselves and our ever-roving, ever-fearful minds.  I also read a similar thought that we should not call our efforts to keep calm and centered "stress management," but rather "peace management." 

So many quotes I've put on my Pinterest boards on Tranquility, Simple Living and From God's Lips echo this idea: 

"Never be in a hurry. Do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset." - Francis de Sales

"If we practice mindfulness, we always have a place to be when we are afraid." - Thich Nhat Hanh 

"Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions." 

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." - Dalai Lama 

"Peace is not the absence of troubles, but the presence of Christ." - Sheila Walsh 

Why Do This?

Today as I made a Crockpot version of Sunday gravy with pasta ... it was heavenly ... I realized that I have some specific reasons for focusing on a slowed down life of Christian mindfulness.  I want to feel as content as the monkey in the selfie.

1. I can enjoy cooking again.  No longer am I tearing through the kitchen, taking every shortcut possible to get dinner on the table in 30 minutes.  Even if dinner is a little later, I will enjoy the sights and the smells.  I even cut up a pineapple today to get some fruit, which hasn't happened probably since I had my first child 32 years ago. 
2. My blood pressure may actually stay low. This year's stress included some unpleasant physical symptoms for the first time:  blood pressure jumping all over the place, a numb thumb and vertigo. Being more intentional may actually keep my blood pressure where it needs to be.
3. I have time to think more creatively.  Instead of Solve the Problem, Solve the Problem, I can take time to think and come up with a creative solution. 
4. I can feel the Lord's presence.  This weekend the Lord has been prompting me to pray more specifically to feel his presence and to rest in it.  He has plans for me, and I'm willing to let Him take the lead. 
5. I'm not afraid ... at least when I am awake.  We may be facing a major life change, and mindfulness has allowed me to take one day at a time while we wait to see what happens.  I may still have nightmares about it, but the days are placid.